Ilia-Chan

Twitch

Mon, 18 Jun 2018 15:34:02 -0400

Twitch:

I’m currently streaming some colouring and lining practice! https://www.twitch.tv/ilinorae

Please go back into your closet and don't come out.

Fri, 15 Jun 2018 14:00:17 -0400

Wow, my first anon hate.

@officialfist Proud of me yet? Lol

What does this even mean.

Tori | Speedpaint | Medibang

Tue, 05 Jun 2018 16:21:32 -0400

Tori | Speedpaint | Medibang:

I uploaded a speedpaint of yesterday’s livestream to my YouTube!

Thanks to people who watched my stream!!! Here’s my first...

Mon, 04 Jun 2018 22:40:18 -0400

Thanks to people who watched my stream!!! Here’s my first ever OC, Torabelle! >:0

elephantedespressante: slightly invasive gay asks1. what’s your gender?2. what are your pronouns?...

Mon, 04 Jun 2018 09:58:01 -0400

elephantedespressante:

slightly invasive gay asks
1. what’s your gender?
2. what are your pronouns?
3. is your family accepting?
4. what do you wish you could tell your past self?
5. what is your sexuality?
6. favorite color?
7. sun gay or moon gay?
8. when did you find out your sexuality?
9. how was your day?
10. do you have any gay friends?
11. what’s your favorite hobby?
12. who’s the best gay icon in your opinion?
13. which pride flags do you like the most design/color wise?
14. are you openly out?
15. are you comfortable with yourself?
16. bottom or top?
17. femme or butch?
18. do you bind?
19. do you shave?
20. if you could date anyone you wanted, who would it be?
21. do you have a partner (s)?
22. describe your partner (s)?
23. have you ever dated anyone of the same sex?
24. anyone of another sex?
25. pastel gay or goth gay?
26. favorite dad in dream daddies?
27. tell me a random fact about yourself?
28. do you own any pride flags/merch?
29. have you ever been to a pride parade?
30. any advice to someone who isn’t out or who is exploring themselves?

how-to-tucute: dinodotscreations: skwatfather: launch-me-into-the-void: Tips for passing:...

Sat, 02 Jun 2018 10:18:46 -0400

how-to-tucute:

dinodotscreations:

skwatfather:

launch-me-into-the-void:

Tips for passing: transguys

(I’m a truscum get over it)

Guys, my fellow doods, not here to tell you what to do, but here’s things that help me pass and shit:

Walk confidently, feet apart, wide steps. Imagine there is a block in between your feet, walk on the sides of the block, but don’t waddle

Sit with legs apart. It gives a masculine appearance. If you cross your legs put your ankle on your knee, but act as if you have balls in between. Packers help.

Bind, with a really binder, not ace wrap or made at home ones. I did that for years and now my ribs are permanently misplaced. It hurts, it also fucked my back up. If you can’t bind try using sweaters and stuff, but I can’t help you much there :(

Wear darker colors, such as blacks, grays ,and maroon or Olive green. Try avoiding pastels and neons.

Avoid the “lesbian” cut, and the “emo” cut. As much as they look good they make us look like lesbians pre t. (Undercuts are very risky.)

As cool as it is, dyeing your hair is a big indicater that your trans. Most transtrenders dye there hair. If you do, avoid these colors, as they are most common among trenders:

Any shade of blue

Teal/aqua

Pink

Purple

Bleaching your hair in general

Don’t wear overly baggy clothes, but subtly do. If you wear trash bags it’s obvious you have a small frame, so try balancing out the baggage

Speak with a cocky tone. Not a dickish one, but a more confident tone. And at the end of your sentences try dropping your voice instead of the whole way through, girls tend to make their voices higher at the end of sentences

Wear lifts in your shoes if your short like me. Or high top shoes. Avoid converse or other flat foot shoes.

Observe the men around you, it will help you pick up on those traits.

Try to build up muclse mass, as much as you can, even just taking a jog everyday can help

Tone down drama, try not to over react as much as it sucks. Trust me, it’ll be hard

If a guy hits you, (as a joke),,hit back. Show your masculinity. Even if your not strong it helps. It makes people see you as a male more than a timid girl

As cute as they are, avoid flower crowns and pastel theme clothes. Pre T this makes you look very lesbian tbh

Wear watches, or leather bands, but try to avoid “emo” wrist bands. They make us look like emo girls.

Avoid flannels!!! I’m sorry but they have become the trender and dyke thing. :’(((((

Avoid beanies too, see above

Do try button up t shirts, they hide things, especially if they have a pattern. They also just look nice

Learn more about sports or other “manly” things, then you can have more conversation topics, of course not every guy is into stereotypical boy things, but you can definitely make alot of guy friends buy knowing these things.

Try to find natural ways to boost testosterone, like bananas for breakfast everyday boost mine before I went on T. Muclse milk can help too.

Anyways, feel free to add more, I came up with a ton, and I’ll come out with one for trans girls too!

Take up space, it’s more feminine to close yourself off

SQUARE. OFF. YOUR. SIDEBURNS. Females have pointy ones, not men.

Don’t walk with your hips, keep your back straight.

Graphic tees with high necks are probably your best friend

Wear loose exercise shorts in the summer - they hide hips more

Push ups are good for chest muscle

Gain as much shoulder/arm muscle as you can, it’ll give you a more triangular shape

You’re more likely to pass if you hang out with cis men, in a group of girls you’ll just look like a lesbian

Don’t shave your legs/arms/armpits

Quiff your hair, fringes make you look like a girl

Frown slightly to give yourself a brow-bone and more masculine eyes

Wear lynx/axe/male deodorant (if your parents are against it, argue that it’s stronger than female deo and your current female deo doesn’t work well)

Pack with a sock in your boxers, not too obvious, but don’t be flat down there

If you can’t bind, kt tape/trans tape is good (do research on it before trying it)

Avoid girly phrases like “oh my god” “literally” “like” (when used incorrectly) unless it’s obvious you’re taking the piss .

don’t talk about your cock so much, it’s mostly girls that do that

Don’t giggle, or laugh at everything. that’s flirtatious and girly. Laugh when you actually find something funny, and actually laugh.

Don’t be touchy-feely with your friends. That’s girly and weird if you do it to a guy, unless it’s a joke and they know it’s a joke.

Don’t take so many selfies.

Do a sport. Gives you something to talk about, makes you exercise, helps you meet more guys, raises endorphins etc.

Don’t move your hands as much when you speak.

My own set of tips I’ve made, found, or think are really good:

There’s a line when you walk. Women take short, foot-after-foot strides. Try walking with longer strides (hard to do when you’re short but still doable) with your feet apart.

Men aren’t very expressive with their faces unless trying to make it obvious what they’re thinking (like a “Really?” face or “Are you serious?” face.)

If you are allergic to bananas like yours truly, there are other ways to raise your testosterone! Certain nuts, grains, and veggies can help. “ Almonds, Brazil nuts, walnuts, and peanuts increase the production of testosterone. “

Men have longer faces. For those with round or chubby faces (like myself), try to sing in a choir (if you can handle the dysphoria singing can give, or if you like singing). There, they teach you to breathe with your belly (which is very helpful when you’re trying to hide your chest lol) and to open your mouth. When singing, you should be able to put 3 fingers, if not 4, between your top and bottom teeth. This is to help when allowing your voice to carry, but it also helps loosen the jaw and make your face appear longer.

If you can’t sing, don’t want to, or are too shy/dysphoric to, you can still practice putting 2-4 fingers between your teeth and letting them gently rest on your fingers. Keep this position until you feel your jaw getting tired, then let your jaw go back to its normal resting place. Do this twice a day for a while until satisfied. (DISCLAIMER: I got this tip from a friend and I haven’t used it personally, since the singing does fine for making my face long, but I don’t know for sure if it can be damaging or not. Do this at your own risk.)

If you can’t buy a binder, try wearing some sports bras. One on normally, one on backwards.

Remember that men’s chests poke out a little, too! It’s okay if your binder doesn’t make your chesticles flatter than paper.

Don’t wear super baggy clothing! If you do have a binder, try wearing normal fitting clothes (with the binder on). If you wear baggy clothing, it will give you away, as it says “I have something to hide”. Try wearing men’s jeans (or jeans that don’t have an obvious shape) that fit normally, because baggy jeans give an unkempt and raggy look.

Try new hairstyles. For men with heart shaped faces (like my own), try quiffing your hair, as stated above. To quiff is to comb up and back from the forehead. Showing off your forehead is a very masculine thing to do, as most men have a far back hair line. Try making your hair voluminous to give the illusion of a tall/skinny face. If you have a round face, try a more conservative look with just short hair that’s combed to taste. If you have a square face, try parting on the side and combing it to taste.

If you don’t have a packer and are using a sock, I suggest not making it huge. One small sock with a rolled up sock seems to work very well. Try not to just let it sit straight up or straight down, too. Put it to one side or the other. This will give a more natural look.

Try to be less verbal when listening. Men don’t give as many verbal cues when listening, and will usually just give nods or grunts on occasion.

Again on the topic of singing, if you are a soprano (I’m a first soprano, naturally) and want to lower your voice, try singing along with alto singers like P!nk or Adele. Years of this can help broaden your range, and eventually give you a deeper speaking voice. I naturally speak like a valley white girl, but when I think about it and fix it, I sound like a 13 year old boy- which is fine to me.

Be loud when you talk. Don’t let others interrupt you. This is a very masculine thing to do, and it can also help give confidence that otherwise can not be there.

When people talk to you, look them in the eyes.

Be a gentleman! Open doors for people, go in/out last, offer to pay/do things, offer to drive.

Be direct and blatant about things. Women beat around the bush about issues or desires (especially if an important date is coming up), but men are usually very direct about their desires. If you want a new pair of shoes, just say “I want (these kinds of shoes) for (this important date).”

Don’t be afraid to show your soft side, but try to be a little less emotive in public. When men are excited, they tend to be chill about it and not jump up and down. However, if you are comfortable with yourself, feel free to go bonkers with your excitement!

Feel free to ignore, add, or change my tips! ~

- Mod uwu

diamondkspace: It’s used to express the progression or continuation of an action and it’s the...

Mon, 28 May 2018 00:33:56 -0400

diamondkspace:

It’s used to express the progression or continuation of an action and it’s the equivalent of “-ing” in English.
Formed by adding -고 있다 to the stems of verbs.
To express a continuation of an action that occurred sometime in the past, -고 있었다 is used.
In conversation:
Q: 지금 어디에서 살고 있어요?
= Where are you living now?
A: 서울에서 살고 있어요.
= I’m living in Seoul.
Q: 왜 아까 전화를 안 받았어요?
= Why didn’t you answer the phone a while ago?
A: 샤워하고 있었어요.
= I was taking a shower.

Hello! I'm just a big fan of your work and I have a question. By chance, would you authorize the use of your drawings in a rpg account? All credits will be given. I was thinking about, perhaps, those of Huang Hua, if you permit?

Tue, 22 May 2018 22:14:10 -0400

If there is proper credit then I have no problem with it my guy, go on ily

Photo

Tue, 22 May 2018 21:49:41 -0400

warriorprincess1995: Meltdowns: a guild for allistics and how to help your autistic friend avoid...

Tue, 22 May 2018 21:33:50 -0400

warriorprincess1995:

Meltdowns: a guild for allistics and how to help your autistic friend avoid one.
When you’re out with your autistic friend and they become less responsive or things begin to irritate them think of it like this.
Imagine the clothes you wear turning to sandpaper, the lights are as bright as the sun, the child screaming sounds like a fire alarm, actually multiple sirens going off at once, and someone trying to hold a conversation with you.
This is what overstimulation feels like. Here’s how you can help them.
1.) Know their echo. Echolalia is like when they repeat a word or sound or section of a song over and over again until they calm down. Trigger an echo and get them to echo until they calm down.
2.) Be quiet, don’t yell. Yelling will make things worse. If you need to say something, speak quietly and clearly. If not, don’t speak at all. It adds stimuli.
3.) Hand them soft clothing, or let them sensory seek. Soft texture can ground them.
4.) Do not touch! Its added stimuli. A simple touch can do more damage than you think.
5.) Lead them (without touching them) to someplace without or with low stimuli. Like outside or a bathroom.
6.) Do not wear strong scents around them. Do not take them into stores with strong scents.
7.) Let them stim. Any movement or sensory seeking is called stimming. Humming it singing can also be a stim. Stimming comforts them. It calms them. So let them stim. It will help them avoid a meltdown.
Ok. What if your friend is having a meltdown already? Good question. Here is some tips.
1.) Take them to a safe environment without touching them.
2.) Speak softly, do not yell.
3.) Do not tell them they are drawing attention. It will only make things worse.
4.) Do not touch them. They could hurt you or themselves if they do.
Post meltdown?
1.) Be understanding.
2.) Cut down on stimuli.
3.) Remember, this is still your friend. They were just pushed to their limits and couldn’t take it anymore.
Please remember, all meltdowns are avoidable. If you understand what it is and what to look for you can stop it before it happens. This goes for children as well as adults. They are still your friend.

art-res: starsprincessjavert: ladytygrycomics: frauleinpflaume: For artists who have problems...

Tue, 22 May 2018 21:04:37 -0400

art-res:

starsprincessjavert:

ladytygrycomics:

frauleinpflaume:

For artists who have problems with perspective (furniture etc.) in indoor scenes like me - there’s an online programm called roomsketcher where you can design a house/roon and snap pictures of it using different perspectives.

It’s got an almost endless range of furniture, doors, windows, stairs etc and is easy to use. In addition to that, you don’t have to install anything and if you create an account (which is free) you can save and return to your houses.

Examples (all done by me):

Here’s an example for how you can use it

Great find, thanks!

OMG HEAVEN!!

Bless you!!!!

Very nice resource for those looking to improve their perspective, composition, and background rendering skills!

Meltdowns: A Survival Guide

Tue, 22 May 2018 21:01:16 -0400

lavender-sprinkles:

Not all autistics get meltdowns (or get them often), but many of us know the harsh reality of how bad they can be.

You scream; you cry; you get angry; you snap at every little thing. You feel like your skin is on fire; every sound is thunder in your ears; your head hurts; you’re going to explode. You rock, you pace, you bang your head, you throw things, you scratch at your body, you kick, you hit. Some or all of these things can happen during an autistic meltdown. When everything just becomes way too much for you to handle, when every emotion, sense, and thought is screaming “STOP! NO MORE!”, it literally becomes the definition of “sensory hell”.

It doesn’t get much better after the meltdown passes. You end up exhausted, sensitive, weepy, unable to talk. You need quiet and darkness and you feel disoriented and dizzy, even physically sick. The meltdown aftermath can last for hours or even days while you recharge.

We can’t stop our meltdowns from happening any more than we can stop physical pain when we get hurt. It is completely involuntary and none of us want to have them. So what can we do? Survive them.

Meltdown Survival Tips:

Before

If you know you are prone to frequent meltdowns, keep your nails short so there’s less chance of damaging your skin.

Always keep sound-cancelling products near you (ear defenders, ear plugs, headphones). If you are in a work environment and can’t get accommodations, ear plugs might be your best bet.

Keep stim tools nearby. Tangles, fidget cubes, fidget spinners, and chewelry are great for when you’re at home or in a casual environment. When you are at work, spinnable pendants, bead jewelry, spinner rings, diffuser necklaces, or something small and soft to touch can be helpful. If you have pockets, you can also quietly fidget with something inside them (For example: one time I was in meltdown mode all day at work and the only way I could cope was by smoothing my thumbs across these two slick tags I found on the ground).

If you can tell you’re approaching meltdown mode, try explaining to others that you need to go somewhere quiet and dark. If you can’t explain, make some logical excuse to take a short break and go somewhere else.

Have a comfort object or plushie available. Even bringing a small one like a Disney Tsum Tsum in your bag can be comforting.

Explain to people you trust what meltdowns can be like for you before you have one around them so they can try to help and keep you safe. Make sure you tell them what they should and shouldn’t do in the event of a meltdown so they don’t accidentally make it worse while trying to be helpful (i.e. touching you, asking too many questions, etc.).

If you bang your head during meltdowns, don’t put anything hard and pointy in your hair. There might not be time to take it out while in meltdown mode and it could cause serious damage to your head.

Have alternate communications available! Texting, a notepad app on your phone, pen and paper, or even basic sign language can all be good options.

During

Even if you don’t have stim tools, try to body stim (it really does help!).

Do your best to keep breathing. Resist the urge to hyperventilate.

Use grounding techniques, counting, or singing and humming little nonsense songs during the meltdown to help you focus on something to stay calm.

Sometimes weight and pressure can help you better ride out a meltdown.

Don’t be afraid to sit or lie on the ground. It would be a lot worse to fall down and hurt yourself during a meltdown than it would be to avoid the stares of people around you.

If a police officer tries to confront you, keep your body language as open as possible. Don’t act aggressive, call for help if you need to, and don’t try to run away. Don’t reach for anything in your pockets or bag and don’t try to protect your possessions from being taken. They most likely won’t understand your behavior even if you explain you’re autistic, so do your best to follow what they say, even if it’s hard while in meltdown mode. Your physical safety is of utmost important in that moment.

If a stranger confronts you to ask if you need help or accuse you of causing a disturbance, just say as simply and calmly as possible that you need to be left alone and that you’ll be okay soon.

If you can, try and remember that the meltdown will pass, no matter how awful it feels. It’s going to be okay.

After

If you accidentally do something harmful to someone during a meltdown, please be responsible for your actions. You can’t help that it happened, but it still happened. Apologize for what you did to those people and explain what was going on without using it as an excuse. If possible, ask if there’s anything you can do to make up for the “damage”.

Meltdowns take a lot of energy and might make you hot. Make sure to find ways to cool down if you need to (Sometimes you can feel very cold after too, like a fever, so change your needs accordingly).

Please be understanding of yourself once your meltdown is over. Try not to hate and blame yourself; it’s not your fault.

Reach out to one of your comfort people and tell them you don’t feel well (or if they know you’re autistic say you had a meltdown) if it will make you feel better to talk to them. Just don’t overwhelm yourself with conversation.

If you did end up harming yourself somehow, please try to take care of it as soon as possible after the meltdown. Clean any wounds, get ice packs, and take medicine.

Drink plenty of water and eat something if you need to.

After the meltdown, practice self-care. Watch a comfort movie, wrap up in a blanket, take a bath or shower, eat some sweets, pet your animals; do something that makes you feel a bit better and happier.

If you have a meltdown while you’re out, go home as soon as possible.

If you can, take time to rest and sleep.

It may take a couple of hours to days to fully recover so go easy on yourself during those times.

A meltdown can be one of the major symptoms we hate having as autistics, but there are ways to make it easier and help them to not interfere with our ability to enjoy loud, fun things we want to do, to work, interact with our friends, or anything else.

If you have any other suggestions for how to manage and survive meltdowns, please reblog and add them!

–

Ok to Reblog!

Day 28 of Autism Acceptance Month 2018

Check out:

Keep reading

Calling all artists!

Sun, 13 May 2018 14:18:11 -0400

character-creation-resources:

If your commissions are open and you do draw OC’s, please reblog this post!
If you are not an artist but know of one, please reblog this and tag them or just mention their url in the tags!
And hey, even just reblogging helps! I will be keeping a comprehensive list of artists who can be commissioned to draw characters/OC’s on the blog!

Here is my commission info!

https://akmongnyeo.tumblr.com/post/173175999202/my-commissions-are-open-i-look-forward-to-drawing

i have HAD it!

Thu, 10 May 2018 12:11:08 -0400

yeouja:

it’s time for the chinese zodiac to take off in western side of internet. forget rising sun moon etc signs, tell me your animal signs & element!! THERE’S SO MUCH POTENTIAL DRAMA WESTERN INTERNET IS MISSING

sketch-a-bsinthe: A small tutorial on how I approach the...

Sun, 29 Apr 2018 19:02:09 -0400

sketch-a-bsinthe:

A small tutorial on how I approach the normally time-spending task of getting details on armor and save myself hours of work I would eventually hate after 30 minutes. Hope it’s the first of many!

akmongnyeo: My commissions are open! I look forward to drawing...

Sun, 22 Apr 2018 16:28:32 -0400

akmongnyeo:

My commissions are open! I look forward to drawing for you. ♥

More information under the cut

Keep reading

My commissions are open! I look forward to drawing for you....

Sat, 21 Apr 2018 21:28:51 -0400

My commissions are open! I look forward to drawing for you. ♥

More information under the cut

◇ Extras such as props, decorations, etc., are, at minimum, an extra 2USD with the price scaling based on complexity and how many props and or decorations there are.
◇ Complex poses are, at minimum, an additional 5USD with the price scaling based on complexity and the type of commission.
◇ Additional Characters can range from an additional 10USD in a bust, 15USD in a half body, and to 20USD in a full body, for each new character.
◇ Artistic nudity is an additional 5USD.
◇ Pornographic content is an additional 20USD at minimum.
◇ Blood/Gore is an additional 5USD to 15USD with the price scaling based on complexity
◇ A background is an additional 10USD minimum in a bust, an additional 20 minimum in a half body, and an additional 35USD minimum in a full body with the price scaling based on complexity - Does not include a simple coloured background or a simple pattern.

Please give visible credit for commission!

! I reserve the right to refuse your commission if I feel uncomfortable drawing !

Thank you! Have a nice day!

(If there are any questions, feel free to either email me at akmongnyeo@gmail.com, message me on here, on Instagram, or on Twitter!)

Buying an adoptable grants you a 10% discount on a commission and buying a print grants you a 20% discount on a commission!

PSA to our followers this Autism Acceptance Month:

Thu, 05 Apr 2018 21:23:45 -0400

ashiok-stole-my-socks:

endangeredbodiesnyc:

Use Autism **Acceptance** Month (as opposed to Autism Awareness Month).

NO “light it up blue” or puzzle pieces. Google “Autism Speaks hate group” to learn more.

Use red or gold instead, which are colors supported by the autistic community.

Use identity-first language (most autistic people prefer “autistic” instead of “person with autism”), but don’t police the language of someone who prefers to be called a person with autism.

NO scare terms like “suffering with autism” or “afflicted with autism.”

Avoid functioning labels like “high functioning” or “low functioning.”

If autistic voices are not at the center of your efforts, you’re doing it wrong.

When in doubt, ASK AN AUTISTIC PERSON.

To learn more about autism, visit autistic-run organizations like the Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) and Autism Women’s Network (AWN).

I’m an autistic person who can answer your questions!

As am I!

akmongnyeo:I did an art trade with someone a few days ago. This...

Thu, 05 Apr 2018 20:32:48 -0400

akmongnyeo:

I did an art trade with someone a few days ago. This is a healer character of theirs who I love!

The person whose character this is is @quanyueshi!!! Please look at their art I love their art so much!!

quanyueshi: a compilation of pieces i did for art...

Thu, 05 Apr 2018 20:31:42 -0400

quanyueshi:

a compilation of pieces i did for art trades
@uriiboo, @middletide, and @akmongnyeo‘s ocs,respectively

!!! I HAD NO IDEA YOU HAD A TUMBLR AHHH!!

GUYS PLEASE CHECK THIS ARTIST OUT, THEIR ART IS AMAZING AND THEY DREW AURELIE AND I LOVE IT SO MUCH